Would You Stay?

I saw this on FaceBook in June this year. I just found the copy I made on word that I thought I would share being it’s Christmas day & not many of you will be logging on to read my blog… So here is a bit of an interesting filler post…

In the pic is the question & all the comments I copied…

I know why I was intrigued by the answers because I know what advice I would have given but don’t know if I would have taken the advice – typical me! Hahaha.

• Nope! We weren’t married, but I was pregnant and only found out after I had my son. They are married now and I’m still happily single. My son is almost 18 now
  
• I did , but you have to ” level up”
  
• I left, took a while though and also wasn’t husband
  
• I did, but only because I didn’t have the choice to leave. I eventually did leave tho, and life got a lot better after that.
  
• I did, with the promise that things would be better. Things did not get better.
  
• I did and completely regretted it
  
• I stayed with ex husband after he cheated several times during pregnancies 3 kids, 1 5 years of marriage but after he got another woman pregnant that was it for me, now I’m happily married to my second husband
  
• Happened to me. But later confirmed it to be true when my son was born and left him when my oldest was 4 and my son 6 months. It gets lonely sometimes but it’s better honestly.
  
• If I had a support system I could rely on, then no I wouldn’t stay with him. Pregnancy and birth, is a vulnerable time for a women and we were never meant to do it alone.
  
• No. That’s actually why my ex-husband and I got divorced
  
• I don’t think I can
  
• It hasn’t happened but NO I wouldn’t
  
• Yep happened and I just idk pretended it didn’t
  
• I did and it was the dumbest decision I made.
  
• That kind of betrayal is non negotiable
  
• I did…
  
• I say no,but I did. He never stopped. It took a few years to leave, but damn, it still feels good that I left. Even staying as long as I did.
  
• No. Even if not pregnant Never understood people who stay once cheating occurs. The relationship is dead after that. You CANT cheat on someone you love, so if someone cheats, the love is already gone or was just never there. There’s no coming back from things at that point….. you can’t rebuild what doesn’t exist
  
• If your spouse ever cheats, pregnant or not, that’s grounds for divorce.
  
• Absolutely not. I would never trust that man again and no amount of therapy or conversations or promises would ever change that.
  
• It depends on whether or not I had resources for the baby
  
• No!
  
• Absolutely no way..
  
• Absolutely not. She can have him.
  
• Idk I’ll have to b in that situation I’m not saying I wouldnt n I’m not saying I would
  
• I stayed and ended up in divorce 10 yrs later
  
• What other option would they have
  
• No, never.
  
• I’d submit an obituary to the paper and get all his friends and family to pretend he joined the lord
  
• Nope he be gone and paying for the baby and I
  
• No I wouldn’t, I’d leave for good!!
  
• Absolutely not a hope in hell.
  
• Just leave when the baby grows up.
  
• Hells to the no!
  
• I don’t know…. i might stay because i want my kids to grow up with their father but i will cheat on him after the baby is born. But I dont know. The thought of sleeping with other men don’t sit right with me I’d be crushed tbh.. So Hai I dont know.
  
• I stayed until I hated him and then I left
  
• Yea I did with both kids, I stayed but we’re no longer together.
  
• I did
  
• If the women is independent, then she can do everything and anything
  
• I stayed. Mistakes were made.
  
• No. I rather have piece than having piece of shit on my life if that’s the case.
  
• Hell no
  
• No, I left him when my son was 6 months old. Best decision ever. Cheated on during and after pregnancy from the BD. Never again. He ruined trust for me
  
• I did. I had a toddler and was pregnant with twins. Didn’t have a job and couldn’t make enough to pay for childcare. I’m not with him anymore
  
• No, never
  
• Never
  
• NO
  
• I did… it didn’t work and I wouldn’t make that mistake again
  
• Nope
  
• I did but I had a plan. I became a stay at home mom, i saved money in a separate account and when both my kids were in school I kicked him out
  
• GONE.
  
• This has literally happened this year, i’m still with him but the trust is pretty gone for now…
  
• Nope. Don’t.
  
• Nope

What would you have done?!

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