May 2025 – Hahndorf
14 May 2025 – He says in the morning, that he will just come to my house when I ask what the plan is for today, I even offer up cancelling, as much as that will piss me off, I will at least go into work so I don’t waste my leave if he has to bail. I also say that if he’s worried, we don’t have to go all the way to Hahndorf which is over an hour away. If she goes home & drives past his work & his car isn’t at his work, he will have to get back to the car, drop me off before he can go home, what excuse will he use for what took so long when his work is five minutes away & his click & collect is ten minutes away? He says “We are going to go. I’m going to take you out for a date day like you deserve.” Fuck… I mean I do deserve a date & I love that he is recognising that…
I get up & get dressed so I am ready to go when he gets here, I have put on a little bit of makeup, I’d washed my hair, so I don’t look like a bridge troll like I did when we went to Victor Harbor. I am dressed in a little black DKNY t-shirt dress, that has the DKNY in sequins on the front & wear some cute white sneakers & a denim jacket. It’s cooler today but I did get warm when we walked at Victor Harbor in jeans, so I am going to wing it in a dress… I also have a little cheeky, hot idea for today, which requires me to wear a dress!
He was surprised that I was up & ready to go when he gets here around 8:30am, the video of him walking to my door, he looks so grumpy till I open the door fully dressed & ready, the smile on his face is so big & bright – it sets the mood for today, I love his face! He is wearing the jeans that I love him in, I think maybe his only pair but I love them – see he wore them because he knows I like them, he says he didn’t but we all know he subconsciously wore them because he wants to please me & he knows it makes him feel sexy when I tell him how much I love it. We kiss hello & he runs his hands all over my body in my little thin dress, I can’t exactly recall, but I am sure that he slip a cheeky finger in while we are saying hello. While I am sorting the dogs, he has gone through my fridge & cupboard, even helping himself to a taste of the marshmallow fluff in there, which I think is so cute & so familiar! But we are out the door by 9:00am, not having much time to waste as he only has till about 1:00pm because that’s what time his fake shift ends– why he didn’t write till 3:00pm, I won’t understand, but anyway…
We talk & hold hands the whole trip to Hahndorf, this has become my favourite thing to do with Phoenix, driving in his car with him… It’s just us, no distractions as he’s driving, not looking at Facebook or playing a game, no other people, it’s just us. When he finds a car park, ironically in a church carpark for what I am about to do, I can’t help but think I am going to hell anyway so what difference does it make. I go to make my sexy move for the day, but he has jumped out the car so quickly, I lean over as he’s shutting his door & ask if he has a pocket. He says yes & comes over to my door to ask what I am on about, we open it together, him opening it as I push it out & he doesn’t really understand what I am doing, but I am pulling my panties down my legs as I sit in the car, & I take them off. I hold them up to him on a finger & his look is like what the fuck is this? I say something like ‘can you take these?’ & he says why, then realises that they’re my panties, he shoves them in his pocket as I get out of the car & give him a kiss telling him that I am going panty less today. He lets out a little groan, grabs my ass as I shut the car door.
To be honest, it probably isn’t a good idea. It’s a cooler day, I am wearing a shorter dress & we are in the hills, which is a few degrees cooler than at home. I am now going to be bare assed walking around outside with a little wind blowing up my dress. But the cold is forgotten when we start walking & he grabs me from behind as soon as we’ve taken only two steps & I feel his hard cock against my back & he says ‘fuck you’re a sexy bitch sometimes’ & I have achieved my goal! I had not mentioned that I was going to do this, I wondered if I would be able to go through with it at all to be honest. But I am so glad I did; he loves it & it’s not some lame forced act. He mentions it multiple times throughout the day, I think mainly when he puts his hand in his pocket & feels them there. He later tells me that he was rock hard for at least the first 10 minutes of our walk.
We walk around Hahndorf, holding hands, talking & walking into random shops. We go into a Christmas type shop that has shot glasses & after we leave that store, I say that I should have bought one for my shot glass collection. We walk for about an hour, we have stopped & kissed at the end of the main street, he tries to finger me & I don’t know why I stop it but there are so many cars driving past! We find a toilet – again not so we can have this public toilet sex, but I literally need to go. While in the bathroom, I send him a snap of my bare cunt with a little lift of my dress. I assume since we’re together, he’ll have it loaded on his phone & the notifications on, but he hasn’t seen it when I come out that I ask him to look at his snapchat. He says that I’m so sexy when he see it & I grab his hand & pull him in close to me to feel his hard cock.
We keep walking till we find the place I picked to go for lunch, being we are in German town, we buy a share sausage platter with a pretzel, just what I wanted & I have a wine & he has a beer. He pays for the whole thing which is probably over $100 but he doesn’t want money for it. We sit outside in the sun, on the same side of the table. I sit close to him, rubbing his back, he runs his hands up my legs to my exposed cunt, which makes him hard. After we share lunch, we walk down the other side of the road, I see some Birkenstocks that I really like, but I am self-conscious to buy anything around him. I don’t know why, he doesn’t care, in the lolly shop he buys himself some lolly to try & another shop I buy him an ice cream that he hasn’t tried before. Then before we are ready to leave I decide I do want a memento from today & I want the shot glass to add to my collection. So we walk back to the Christmas shop, I think we have passed the shop when we seem to be walking forever that I say let’s not worry about it, but he is on a mission! He says no & we keep walking to find the shop to buy the shot glass.
Because it’s getting later & I forgot about the Geocaches, we don’t get to do any today on the way home. He hasn’t played with his phone much, but I know that if she’s messaged him, he’ll have to write back so it’s not suspicious. As we get closer to home, I don’t want this day to end, I know that he won’t stay long at my house & he’ll stay even shorter if we don’t have sex… The only way I know how to get him to stay, is to make it about sex. We have gone all day so we should be proud of that. So I tell him that I am so drippy wet, I open my legs & stick my fingers inside me & show him when he is stopped at the lights. I keep rubbing my cunt & putting my fingers in his mouth for a taste of my wetness & I also taste myself too. I reach over to rub him through his pants, but can’t seem to get a good enough feel, so I slip my hand in his jeans & for the first time ever, I have his almost soft dick in my hand, I mean, it’s not entirely soft because he’s been tasting me as I finger myself, however it’s the softest I’ve ever felt it, but it’s not soft for long as I start to stroke it & rub my clit at the same time.
He pulls into my driveway & it intensifies, he’s reached over in the last minute of our drive & rubs my clit himself, as I rub his dick harder. I look around & then lean over to suck his dick. He leans back to let me get the right angle to get it in my mouth. We only do this for about a minute before I say that he needs to come inside & fuck me. I have spent the entire day with no panties on, walking around in public, in a short dress that I have been so turned on, I want sexless dates but I also don’t want this day to end & I don’t know when we will be able to see each other again, we have sex, even though we didn’t get back to my house till 1:30pm, he is only there until after 2:00pm. Saying he has to go to get his groceries & make sure he is home before the kids who come home just before 4:00pm.
I send a message because I am so thankful for today “Hey Baby, thanks for a great day out! I loved it & I love you. I hope you enjoyed carrying my panties around in your back pocket all day! 😋 I’m so sad I forgot to take a pic of us… I put make up on & eveything!” It even catches him off guard because he says, “You never message first 😜” I mean I do with him, rarely & I have in the mornings a little… He says I should have asked for a picture but I was having such a good day, I just didn’t think about it, until after the fact. Just before 5:00pm, he says that he needs to go offline “Anyway I’m heading off-line. I’m not sure I’ll be back so don’t stay up for me… I didn’t do enough caffeine today , or the day out with you has made me super tired.” So we say goodnight & we don’t talk again tonight, which makes me sad of course because I want to talk to him, but we have had a good day together & some epic sex. I am happy…
When I go into my room later that night, I notice something on my chair-robe (aka occasional chair in the corner that is always full of clothes). What is that? I notice that its his jumper that I don’t really remember seeing him wear, on my chair… In one of our phone conversations in the last few weeks, I have told him how much I want one of his jumpers, something that smells like him, that I can cuddle up too. He thinks it’s weird but I have always wanted a jumper of a boyfriend. Has he left it on purpose or was it an accident?! Well too bad, I put it on & pick up my laptop to write, feeling inspired, I write over 5000 words before I go to sleep, which isn’t heaps but more than I have written in a while in one sitting. It feels good to write that it’s around this time, I really start using my blog as a journal & write – which is probably why the posts I’m posting now are more detailed that I’ve written before, probably why after only three months, we already have 40 Phoenix posts!
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