Plumber #5

26 July 2026

Plumber is on my snapchat & he has been for a while – years in fact, we were friends on Facebook for a while there, but I think when I got hacked I never added him on my new profile. He also was following me on TikTok. Please note this won’t be a long post but something interesting that breaks up the Phoenix story a little!

Every now & then Plumber will respond to a snap story or will me messaging me, usually late at night asking if I am awake or whatever. We never really talk of anything exciting because if I am perfectly honest, this guy should have been deleted after post #1. In fact I reckon I did delete him & he added me back so in a moment of boredom I had accepted him prior to A3V2.0 but never really engaged with him.

So on this night he messages about something I posted on snapchat & the cookies I made, something I had actually made for Phoenix but he was being a dick or I was being a dick – depends who you get the side of the story from & so I ate all of them. I had posted passive aggressively for Phoenix to see them… Plumber says that I should have invited him around but I tell him that I have eaten them all already. He says “that hurts… probably had a better time without me anyway lol” I say that we’ll never know because I am in a mood with Phoenix so taking it out on Plumber – who, lets face it, probably deserves it too.

I am surprised by Plumbers response “If u could ever find it in you to take down that wall u have wen it comes to me mayb we could progress past this stage” Um, is this guy serious!? I respond “My wall? Or your ghosting & then getting a GF?” He literally put in my new hot water service just over two years ago & I haven’t seen him since, he hasn’t made much of an effort to take down this wall in over two years. Or even before… Or even when he dated me, fucking twice!

“So because I made a mistake we can never get past that even if there’s a chance their mayb something there.” I mean is there something here?! Not on my end, this guy, like many men have just kept me on their snapchat as a backup, I have kept them on my snapchat for a blog post. I’m not gonna lie why they are still on my snapchat… Any excuse for content when I was writing a lot was why I didn’t delete people – but I will admit I liked to see how many times they would try to talk to me too, but stupidly I would have a moment of weakness & reply!

I respond “No, I can’t get past the fact you have a girlfriend… And if you didn’t & really wanted to date me, you would’ve tried harder” If we recall, wasn’t he wearing a wedding ring two years ago & he said it wasn’t a wedding ring?! I don’t believe this guy really wants me, I think he’s just lonely & wants to chat or just wants me there as a backup. He responds “I have one now.” So he’s got a fucking girlfriend – maybe the one he got almost six years ago after ghosting me after we went to the movies & he held my hand or could be a new one. Either way she’s a lucky lucky lady!

I respond to him “So what am I missing here then?? I have walls up because you have a GF & had her since you last ghosted me… So I don’t even what you want from me…” He reads it & never replies. Then one of us deletes the other. I like to think it was me, but I can’t recall who deleted off snapchat, which was the catalyst for me to head on over to Facebook & TikTok, clicking as hard as I can on the block button, deleting the fucker once & for all. I am not talking to him again!

If this is the kind of bullshit I have to put up with still, I am glad I have a boyfriend, even if my boyfriend couldn’t give a fuck if he sees me or not… I would rather be single forever than speak to Plumber again.

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