Guest Blog – The Assest

A good friend of mine was inspired to write. I haven’t done a guest big in a while… Hope you all enjoy… I know I did & I asked her for more! Hehehe.

The Asset

So, I use this chat app and I started talking to this guy in a group forum, we flirt every time we are both online and people notice and begin to write things like to “get a room. ” So after a week or so we arrange to meet in public (my rules of online dating, I never invite a strange boy over to my house no matter how horny I am or nice they are at the time) after we chat for a bit I feel like we have the same “I want to fuck you senseless connection” as we do online and I say to myself this guy is nice and has his head screwed on, this could be a good thing!

The flirting gets more heated within the group chat and in our private chat we have secret jokes, and the tension builds so its not long until we arrange to meet this time at my house for “coffee.” I know we would end up fucking because of the intense flirtation we’ve had, its been addictive as we are online every chance we get plus I was on leave from work so I had heaps of time to up my sleeve, he’s said he’s just looking for fun in our private chat and I was cool with that because my friend with benefit I was seeing said 2 weeks prior that he needed a time out (great I’m wearing my fwb’s out ha-ha!) Seriously I can’t be that bad right?!

He comes over and we chat over a coffee just about everyday stuff and about this guy I was dating about 3 months prior, he went away for work interstate, he had messaged out of the blue he’s coming back in a few week’s and wants to see me, The Assest gives me a male’s perspective and I appreciate it. When I’m nervous I ramble on about shit and tend to over share and I’m sure I sound like a crazy fucktard.

We finish our coffee and I put our cups on the sink, on the way back to the couch he pulls me in for a kiss, and I land in his lap, we kiss it starts to get hot and heavy I’m thinking it’s clearly time we move this to the bedroom, he’s a good kisser yes!

Love it when a guy can kiss me so passionately (This is one of my biggest turn ons) , as we are heading to the my bedroom we start undressing ourselves and doesn’t take long to get the rest of our clothes off, he kisses me briefly then bends me over my bed with force, I feel instantly wet as the dominance is something I haven’t had in a while he puts a condom on and I’m patiently waiting for his cock to nudge up against my pussy and he does not long after he sticks his cock in and slowly fucks me, I’m so wet!

He begins to fuck me so hard because in our chats I’ve said I like it rough and OMG! Did he deliver. I orgasm once and he blows in the condom, it’s been a while for both of us, him longer and it was good that he waited for me to cum first, I know it would have been hard.

The next day I see some bruises coming out on my thighs, I smile because I’ve just re-lived what happened the previous day. We fuck once, sometimes twice a week if we both have time, after a couple of months he tells me his chatting to this girl in the group. She’s an online friend of mine and we have this pact not to cut each other’s lunch, she doesn’t know this guy and I are fucking and he has no interest in her sexually but I’m annoyed anyway. Why??

I know this is casual sex and yet I still feel annoyed. I end things with him, its no big deal as I have no emotional connection with him, but he was a friend, I would of liked to keep in touch with (He’s good value) I hardly speak to this girl online anymore and I’m not bothered by it she is a bit of a gossip and I’m a private person so is maybe why I feel annoyed as I don’t want to be spoken about behind my back and ended things with him.

 

What do you all think?! Sexy right… Though my friend & I havr discussed at length, I don’t understand why she’s annoyed at either person… The chick didn’t know they were FWB & they weren’t exclusive, so why end a good thing for no reason & you definitely can’t be pissed at the chick if she didn’t know… What do you think?

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